I feel like the ‘Terrible Twos‘ are a self induced prophecy manifested by parents and picked up/acted out upon by their toddlers! Think about it for a minute – the entire first year was a sleep deprived blur of events, emotions and fear. The second year was filled with talking, crawling, discovering, walking, running, falling, adjusting your surroundings to their new found mobility and MORE FEAR!!! By the time they make it to their second birthday – most parents are wiped out! Toddlers pick up on everything and anything, especially FEAR. If they sense a weakness in you – they WILL exploit it! This age is the perfect opportunity to set realistic expectations, attitudes and behavior – skills that will last a lifetime.
The boys are halfway through the ‘Terrible Twos‘ and while we have had some issues, they are not the little fire breathing dragons that some parents make them out to be.
Rachel and I try to maintain a positive attitude, set realistic goals/expectations and use them as learning opportunities/reinforcement to motivate them as much as possible. So far so good. We have had our share of meltdowns, but I think that it is just normal toddler stuff! Most important – we try to keep them engaged both mentally and physically. Story time or an outing to the park or zoo can make a world of difference to even the crabbiest of toddlers.
The boys are growing so fast – where did my babies go? 😥
On a quick side note – I wrote an article for Father’s of Multiples about the time change (click here to read) and we failed miserably!!! We went the complete opposite direction -the boys were going to bed an hour later than usual (8pm instead of 7pm) and not falling asleep until almost 9pm. Well fast forward to Daylight Savings time and they are major grumpy kids! 😀 lol, oh well – maybe I’ll follow my own advice next time! 🙂
Mahalo ke Akua!